This list comes from a review/interview of Christopher Shelley and his book, Transpeople; Repudiation, Trauma, Healing. Shelley is a Vancouver, British Columbia Adlerian psychologist. His interviews include a friend of mine. I think this is one of the most important books on transpeople.
1. Denial that the problem exists in the first place.
2. Inability to distinguish between categories such as queer, lesbian, and trans.
3. Lack of meaningful discussion in educational and workplace settings.
4. Anxiety over not being able to tell if a person is male or female.
5. Crude jokes directed at trans people or with trans-related content.
6. Refusal to accept trans people as one’s own teacher, doctor, politician, dentist, etc.
7. Thinking that being trans is OK but also dismissing the idea of ever dating a transperson.
8. Reducing trans to being merely and solely a psychiatric category.
9. Trivialization and media spectacles centred on trans-ness as an object of ‘fascination.’
10. Refusing the fundamental claims of transpeople as being genuinely mis-sexed.